The Gate — J Calaway — Make Today Count — Voices

Jun 23, 2025    J Calaway

Stop taking advice from people who are not living the life you want to live.


Your circle matters! If you’re dreaming of a thriving marriage, don’t lean on advice from someone who’s bitter about relationships. If you’re building a business with integrity, don’t follow the lead of someone cutting corners. (Proverbs 13:20)


Ask yourself: Does this person’s life reflect the values, faith, and outcomes I’m striving for?


This isn’t just about avoiding “bad people”—it’s about recognizing that even well-intentioned advice can derail you if it’s not rooted in God’s truth. (Corinthians 15;33)


How to select the voices:

1. Identify Your Vision:

2. Curate Your Counsel:

3. Filter Advice Through Scripture: (James 1:5)


Listen carefully and Make Today Count!